Wednesday, April 28, 2010
I have my surgery date set for August 27th. I will be getting a mommy makeover minus the liposuction on my butt. I'm a little torn between wether I want to do it or not so I decided if I'm not gunhoe about it I just won't. I will be completely down for one week because of the tummy tuck and after that it'll take 12 weeks before I can workout again. That's why I decided to wait until the end of summer so I could have a good time this summer, it is my favorite season afterall. I don't know how much of a good time I'll be having though because I work now. I also won't have my mother-in-laws pool to swim in. We'll see. At this point in my life I'm just trying to feel normal, I'm just finishing up with a rough two and a half years(hopefully finishing up). And I'm trying to not to take some divorces and broken relationships personally. I have that problem some people have of taking other peoples problems onto myself and trying to fix them, and I wonder if I should. I try not to be selfish when things like this happen because it's not about me at all but they are ruining my comfortable feelings I have about eternal marraige here. Hello have a little consideration, lol. You all know I'm just joking. I feel like if you married in the temple and you have a strong testimony you should just work it out no matter what it is, but then on the other hand I don't know how I would react personally to John if I was so utterly betrayed. How would I react, I like to think it would be in a very selfless way, but I really don't have to, so I can't honestly say I would. It's all very much like someone is taking my brain and shaking it like an etchasketch. I'm glad I'm not these people I love that have to go through these challenges and make these decisions I have my own and I'm thankful that they're in the past, I know I'll have more in the future and the scare me to think about so I don't. What's the point in that, just deal with what I have today and look to the future with hope and of course faith. God can conquer all things and so can man with his help. I needed to vent! And it's not even me going through this crap, I can't even imagine!
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I think that you should cancel your appointment and take that money and put it towards a cruise for you and John. Or something for the 2 of you to getaway. I think that time alone together strengthens all marriages and makes memories that will last forever. Your body will be perfect in the afterlife and I think it's pretty close to perfect now! I don't know who put it in your head that you needed a tummy tuck but they should be slapped. No one should tell anyone anything negative about who they are. You have stretch marks like the rest of us who are normal mothers because you are a mother. If you had lost 200 pounds and had that much extra skin then I think a tummy tuck would be good. I have a friend who got one because she just had a couple of areas that she didn't think looked good. She was a p.e. teacher and was healthy. After her tummy tuck she had to wear a drainage tube for 3 weeks to keep the fluid from collecting around the area she had done. It was gross and she was out of commission for 4 months! See yourself the way the lord does. Not the way others do. I would kill for your body. Again, tell whoever told you to get one to take a leap and go do something fun with John instead.
wow! Well I'm the one who wants the tummy tuck it's never had anything to do with anyone else. I've wanted to have this done for the last 8 years, so I've had along time to think about it. And just so you know John and I just bought a timeshare that will allow us to travel around the world and take people with us sometimes. So we're not forgetting what really matters. I think John is letting me do this surgery because he's known how long I've wanted to get it done. I know all the complications and I know all about the recovery I've been researching it for quite a long time. I've also thought a lot about the reasons I want to get this surgery done and for a while I was leaning quite the other way but in the end I decided this WAS what I wanted and I've never had anyone tell me anything negative about my body it's all for personal reasons. But thank you for caring and letting me know how you feel, I love you and love that you care enough to tell me. I'm so thankful for you and Joel and your example to John and I.
Wow, and vent you did. I was watching a show last night and they were talking about lip suction for the belly instead of a tummy tuck. I was amazed at the results. The sking shrinks down when the fat is gone and it doesn't look to me like you skin is saggy. Just something to think about. I want to get it done badly so I know how you feel but I might just do the lipo if I ever get to do anything about that annoying pooch that never goes away unless I stop eating. As for everything else you vented about: Temple marriage unfortunately does not always mean that divorce isn't the right thing to do. It all depends on the individual circumstances and you can never know exactly what is going on in someone elses marriage no matter how much you think you know. Thankfully we are all accountable only to the Lord and not to others who jump to conclusions about what they think should or shouldn't be done. Just be thankful that your marriage is such that you are able to work through differences and chalanges because you both want to. That's my peace for the day. I love you and can't wait to see you in about 7 weeks.
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